So, I was facetiming with my friend Jasmine about two months ago and I could tell she was feeling down about something. I tried several times to coax it out of her, without success. Still, I thought if I could speak to her face-to-face I could find out what was wrong and help her with it.
When I got off the phone, I went to my billionaire boyfriend and asked if I could borrow his jet. Of course he said yes and I made a quick call to Jasmine to tell her to pack her bags for someplace warm.
After a quick stop to pick up Jasmine in Atlanta, we set down on the island of St. Thomas, Virgin Islands, less than four hours later. My boyfriend has a vacation retreat on the island of St. John’s. St. John’s doesn’t have an airport, so you have to fly into the neighboring island and take a ferry to St. John’s.
My boyfriend’s retreat is modest by his standards. It has a 12-person bungalow with each individual room having its own full bath. The retreat is fully staffed year-round with a chef, concierge, maid service, car and driver, etc.
It comes complete with a private beach, access to a 25-foot sailboat with a two-person crew, access to a 35-foot speedboat, personal watercraft, among other things. It has state-of-the-art entertainment centers and the fastest Wi-Fi on the island.
Once Jasmine and I were unpacked, we went down to the private beach for a leisurely walk and talk.
First, some background on Jasmine. She’s a second-generation American as her parents emigrated from Nigeria in the 1960s. Jasmine was somewhat of a math prodigy having graduated cum laude from the University of North Carolina with degrees in mathematics and accounting at 19. Her services were well sought after and she landed a good job doing accounting for a major real estate investment company outside of Atlanta.
On the relationship front, I knew that Jasmine had been in a few relationships; but, she had never found “the one” and remained single into her 30s.
As we strolled the beach, Jasmine said she was enjoying her job and her coworkers. However, things were getting “stale” and she was thinking about making a change. Something in the way she said “stale” piqued my curiosity.
I said “That’s an unusual term to use, Jasmine. What do you mean by ‘stale’?”.
“I mean it’s just crunching numbers and routine, crunching numbers and routine. At this point, I’m looking for something different.” she said.
“You’re holding something back. What is it?” I inquired.
Jasmine went on a 30-minute telling of how she had dated officers in the company and it seemed like the same boring dates every time. They all had the same interests and weren’t able to discuss anything outside of their little bubble. Plus, she didn’t think any of the white officers would be interested in her because she was black. She personally limited her perspective dating pool because of those feelings.
She said she had tried dating men in Atlanta outside of the company, but ran into the same boring guys who couldn’t hold conversations outside of their tiny perspective.
She was just looking for someone interesting who could provide her with the things she’d always wanted: travel, a home, maybe even kids.
When she got done after nearly crying several times, I told her she had things all wrong. The wealthy LOVE diversity. They are more interested in what the person thinks than to what race they belong or from what country they came.
I told her with my blueprint she would be able to find someone interesting with the wealth to provide for her every want with relative ease.
At the end of the enjoyable weekend, I provided Jasmine my blueprint and told her to call if she had any questions.
That was two months ago. In that time, Jasmine has dated three different multi-millionaires. She went on at least three dates with each learning about them and seeing if they were compatible. She tells me she thinks she’s finally found “the one”.
He’s white, 15 years her senior, and the owner of several high-end restaurants in the southeast. She says he also owns his own travel agency and they have already been on weekend trips to the Yucatán and Italy.
Not only that, but the conversations have been phenomenal. They’ve discussed everything from a secret passion for antiquing to geopolitical issues to their favorite type of dog. Best of all, she says he’s definitely interested in having or adopting children.
Jasmine is over-the-moon and hopeful she’s finally bagged her billionaire – well multi-millionaire!
You could be to if you simply follow my blueprint.